In my post on Soft Leather, I touched upon the frequent incidents of people getting roofied, and the responsible steps The Dolphin took in light of that information. I want to divulge more on this topic.
The Philly club scene has a few big problems, and nonconsensual drugging is one that seems like is becoming just a normal part of the scene. This is not something any of us want. What makes it a unique problem is that it there are incidents of people being roofied with no apparent more sinister motives (I’m talking about rape). For example, at the last DSJC party a friend of mine, a cis white male, realized the next day that he had been drugged. The details of how he came to that conclusion aren’t necessary, but thank goodness he was ok and looked out for. Unfortunately, no demographic is safe from a potential sexual assault, but for the sake of context, it seemed odd for my friend to have been drugged.
The first time I witnessed this type of at random drugging was a New Years Eve awhile back. A bunch of my friends and I were at a warehouse party thrown by a responsible crew. A dear friend was with her her husband all night and got roofied. She was sick for days and did not remember her night. It turned out multiple people experienced the same thing and the general consensus was that someone was straight up going around drugging drinks rather adventitiously.
Why is this happening? Is this just another example of rape culture? I mean, yes. Though maybe not in every one of these incidents. Recreational drug use may be a part the scene, but it’s not an integral one. Is the thinking of these culprits enacting random druggings is that they are just giving a party goer a fun time? Probably not, my friends who have been roofied have had terrible comedowns and never remembered the night before. Maybe there is no solid reason (unless it is an aforementioned more sinister one).
What can venues and community members do about this problem? There are some ideas, but I’m not even sure these would be total remedies. I’m surprised to see some clubs still have community water, and it was really proactive that The Dolphin ended that practice. Other clubs should take note. Some clubs don’t seem to check bags either, and checking bags consistently is a good idea too.
Talking and opening up the conversation is one of the most important steps. It’s important that we talk about this more and come up with solutions together as a community. This is toxic behavior has no place.
How can we do better?
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